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    From: Peggy Smith
    Parent poems: I have collected these.

    "My Papa's Waltz" by Theodore Roethke
    "My Mother Pieced Quilts" by Teresa Paloma Acosta
    "Mother to Son" by Langston Hughes
    "There Was a Child Went Forth" by Walt Whitman
    "Mrs. Charles Bliss" by Edgar Lee Masters
    "On My First Son" by Ben Jonson
    "The First Snowfall" by James Russell Lowell
    "A Black Man Talks of Reaping" by Arna Bontemps
    "For My Children" by Colleen McElroy

    From: bruce schauble

    Rilke's "picture poem" about his father is also wonderful:

    Portrait of My Father as a Young Man

    In the eyes: dream. The brow as if it could feel
    something far off. Around the lips, a great
    freshness - seductive, though there is no smile.
    Under the rows of ornamental braid
    on the slim Imperial officer's uniform:
    the saber's basket-hilt. Both hands stay
    folded upon it, going nowhere, calm
    and now almost invisible, as if they
    were the first to grasp the distance and dissolve.
    And all the rest so curtained with itself,
    so cloudy, that I cannot understand
    this figure as it fades into the background -

    Oh quickly disappearing photograph
    in my more slowly disappearing hand.

    (tr. Stephen Mitchell)

    I ask students to pick a photograph and attempt to pay the same sort of careful attention to it that Rilke is paying to this picture of his father, try to combine patient observation and reflection in something like the same way. The rather stunning leap taken in the last two lines is perhaps inimitable, but it can at least be noticed, and students sometimes find a way to surprise themselves at the end the poem.